Tantra -
Sexual Deconditioning

From Shame to Passion:
Reclaim Your Life Energy and Sacred Sexuality

A 7-day immersive process led by Svarup De Koning -

Primal Therapist with over 40 years of experience working with people all over the world.

Dive into a journey of sexual healing and teenage awakening in a grounded, heartful container.

Release old imprints, and reconnect with the vibrant, sensual presence that has always been yours.

(Previous participation in Primal Group or Primal private sessions is required in order to attend)

Date: June 15th 09:00 to June 21st 17:00, 2026

Location: The Place to Be, 9 Brunsveldweg, 7021 JH, Zelhem, The Netherlands

Contact: retreats@primalhealing.eu

Limited spaces available.

Return to passion and dreaming as your inner adolescent did. Restore your essence.

This group offers a safe and loving space to explore your relationship with sensuality, intimacy, and sexuality – and to reconnect with the aliveness and innocence that may have been lost in adolescence.

As teenagers, we were flooded with conflicting messages about love, desire, and our bodies. For most of us this time was a time of deep turmoil. Many of us experienced confusion, shame, or even trauma around our sexual energy. In response, we may have shut down, rebelled, hurt or abused ourselves (or others), and we might have felt alienated from ourselves and from others. 

Tantra invites you to return to the place where you lost touch with your natural sensuality – and begin again. In a loving and meditative environment, we need to consciously go through a process of rediscovery: to learn to honor our body as the living temple of our being. To find back the pleasure of physical contact and exchange of energy with others. And to rejoice in the relaxation of playing with sexual energy without a goal. 

Tantra teaches you to return to your natural state. To start listening to your body and senses. To open up to the natural state of sensuality that flows inside of us, and to give way to its expression of whatever feels good or right to you.

To attend this group, you are required to have done Primal Group or Primal private sessions before. This will create a safe and intimate feeling for all the participants. Contact us for more information.

Meet Svarup De Koning

PRIMAL THERAPIST, LEAD FACILITATOR

Svarup De Koning is OSHO Facilitator, and has been leading therapy groups and trainings all over the world for over 40 years.

After graduating in Philosophy at the University of Rome, Svarup worked and trained for several years with R.D. Laing, running one of his therapeutic communities in London, UK. Svarup met OSHO, her master, in 1984. Since then, she has very much enjoyed being part of the commune. From that time on, Svarup has facilitated groups about childhood, teenage and sexuality, as well as meditative therapies. 

Svarup met her beloved life partner Premartha in 1985. For over 30 years, they shared their passion for life, growth, love, and meditation. They passed this on to many beloveds that attended their groups all over the world. 

Premartha left the body in 2023. 

Now Svarup continues their adventure on her own, cherishing in her heart an immense gratitude for the love, inspiration, and creativity they shared for so many years. The work keeps evolving, adjusting to the needs of a different time and world - the need for presence, maturity and innocence. 

What You Can Expect

✤ Exploring revenge, shame and fear from teenage

✤ Opportunities to reclaim pleasure, playfulness, and trust in your body

✤ Inner teenager work to access teenage issues and conditioning

✤ Active meditations designed for somatic release and support

✤ A safe and confidential space to explore deep emotional inner landscapes

✤ Trauma-informed practices that prioritize your healing journey

✤ Group sharing and witnessing work to foster connection and support

✤ Loving guidance through regression processes and integration, ensuring you feel supported every step of the way

What You’ll Walk Away With

  • Renewed aliveness 

  • A deeper trust in your body’s wisdom 

  • Self-insights regarding past shame

  • A stronger connection to your body, your sensuousness and sexuality

  • More inner space and clarity around your boundaries, your voice, and choices

  • A deeper understanding of your emotional and behavioral patterns that shape your life

  • Relief from carrying emotions and burdens that were never yours to begin with, allowing you to embrace your true self

  • A renewed sense of passion, freedom, and personal truth

This Retreat Is For You If…

↠ You want to explore your sexuality in a safe space with more awareness, presence and compassion.

↠ You esperience shame, fear or confusion around sex, desires, or your body.

↠ You long for deeper intimacy but often feel stuck, numb, or disconnected.

↠ You find yourself repeating the same painful patterns in love, sex or attraction.

↠ You struggle with jealousy, performance pressure, fear of rejection or abandonement.

↠ You want to understand and heal teenage wounds around love, boundaries, freedom and rebellion.

↠ You are ready to reclaim your natural aliveness, sensuality, and power - without masks or games.

Daily Program

  • OSHO Active Meditation

  • Breakfast

  • Morning Session

  • Small Break

  • Morning Session Continued

  • Lunch

  • Afternoon Session

  • OSHO Active Meditation

  • Dinner

  • Evening Session

(Program subject to change)

Retreat Venue -
“The Place to Be”

Retreat center The Place to – Be is a magical place located in the middle of the forest, just outside Zelhem in the Achterhoek, The Netherlands . A real place of silence, in the middle of nature. The historic Brunsveld farm has been converted into a place for retreats, workshops, training courses and other meetings.

The estate is full of centuries-old trees, vast meadows, ponds, lanes and forest. From the property you walk straight into the forest and you can walk and forest bathe for hours.

What’s Included

– A Discovery Call (optional)
– 7 Workshop Days
– 6 Nights Accommodation
- Daily Meditations
– Organic, Home-Cooked Meals by our Private Chefs
– 1 Follow-up Sharing Group Call

Meet the Team

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  • Svarup

    PRIMAL THERAPIST, LEAD FACILITATOR

    Svarup De Koning is OSHO Facilitator. After graduating in Philosophy at the University of Rome, Svarup worked and trained for several years with R.D. Laing, running one of his therapeutic communities in London, UK. Svarup met OSHO, her master, in 1984. Since then, she has very much enjoyed being part of the commune. From that time on, Svarup has facilitated groups about childhood, teenage and sexuality, and meditative therapies. 

    Svarup met her beloved life partner Premartha in 1985. For over 30 years, they shared their passion for life, growth, love, and meditation. They passed this on to many beloveds that attended their groups all over the world. 

    Premartha left the body in 2023. 

    Now Svarup continues their adventure on her own, cherishing in her heart an immense gratitude for the love, inspiration, and creativity they shared for so many years. The work keeps evolving, adjusting to the needs of a different time and world - the need for presence, maturity and innocence. 

  • Jheel

    PRIMAL THERAPIST, CHILDCARE SPECIALIST, GROUP ORGANIZER

    Jheel is a trained Primal therapist, OSHO Active Meditation facilitator, and childcare specialist. Driven by deep curiosity for the nature of being human she has travelled many paths – tantra, breathwork, yoga, meditation, Primal therapy, intuitive dance.

    Her experience and growth have been supported by a degree in Psychology, and international trainings such as Primal Childhood Deconditioning, Healing Inner Teenager, Enneagram, Osho Therapist training, and Transessence Technique, among others.

    Her mission is to bring more vulnerability, playfulness and connection to this world.

    Jheel offers Primal Childhood Deconditioning sessions, Healing Inner Teenager sessions and leads meditation groups – both online and live in The Netherlands.

  • Zahira

    ARTISTIC DIRECTOR, PERFORMER, WRITER, THERAPIST, ACTIVIST, GROUP ORGANIZER

    Zahira Mous’s life’s work bridges embodied healing, the arts, and social justice. Zahira holds an MFA in Dance, a Graduate Certificate in Women’s & Gender Studies, and a BA in Theatre in Education. She is certified in NLP, EFT, and trauma-informed inner work drawing from Jungian and Gestalt traditions, such as Healing the Inner Teenager and Sexual Deconditioning.

    She developed the method Art in Motion – a healing practice of movement and creativity. She has facilitated healing workshops in Palestine, India, Brazil, the U.S., Greece, and the Netherlands.

    Zahira is the founder/director of the Healing Arts Foundation, artistic director Project Zahira | Dance Theater, co-director of Rest / Resist, and founder/head facilitator of Sappho Tantra - initiatives rooted in decolonized therapeutic and artistic practices.

  • Eleonora

    SOUS CHEF

    Eleonora, Ayurvedic Practitioner and Chef, weaves her Italian roots with Ayurvedic wisdom to create meals that honour the pleasure of the senses, while deeply supporting the body’s natural intelligence and the digestive system.

    She spices up her dishes with utmost care and presence, with the awareness that the quality of our food becomes the quality of our body.

    With this intention, her cooking provides nourishment to body, mind, and soul.  

  • Tania

    HEAD CHEF

    Tania is a poet, writer, community organizer, somatic practitioner, and intuitive cook. She uses food as a conduit for healing, connection, and social justice.

    Drawing from the vibrant flavors and cooking traditions of her Lebanese and Azeri ancestors, she infuses each dish with her own nafs: an untranslatable Arabic word that gestures toward a soulful, intuitive touch.

    Her approach to cooking mirrors her approach to writing: a deep, embodied knowing that flows into a creative vessel and lands with presence — fresh, sharp, and enticing.

Your investment

Retreat fee: 1190eur

Food: 395eur (incl. Three daily organic vegetarian meals and snacks)

Accommodation:

€ 595,00 (3/4-person room, private bathroom)

€ 675,00 (2-person room, private bathroom)

€ 725,00 (Single room, shared bathroom)

Limited spots available.

  • Business invoices available upon request.

  • Payment plans available. First payment of €350 required.

Frequently asked questions

  • Tantra - Sexual Deconditioning is a deep group process of rediscovering your aliveness and sexuality.
    To reconnect with the full depth of our sensuality and sexuality, we must first release the burdens of the past, allowing us to begin anew from the point where we lost touch with ourselves.

    In a loving and mindful environment, we can learn once again to honor our bodies as sacred expressions of our being, and to recognize that same sacredness in others.
    By rediscovering the joy of physical connection and the flow of shared energy, we naturally begin to relax into expressing our inherent sensuality—with ourselves, with others, and with life itself.

  • This retreat is for you if you’re ready to explore your inner world, heal teenage wounds, and break free from patterns that no longer serve you. Whether you’re new to self-discovery or already on a personal growth path, the process offers a safe, supportive space to go deeper into yourself and reconnect with your true essence.

    NOTE: Previous participation in a Primal Childhood Deconditioning group or private Primal sessions is required to attend the Tantra group. You can join us in January 2026 for Primal or reach out about private sessions.

  • The retreat is facilitated in English. A good understanding of English is recommended to fully participate in group sessions and guided practices.

  • Yes if necessary you can pay in 3 installments over three months, and by the latest three months in advance prior to the group starting. Additional fees apply. 

    Please go to registration page for more information.

  • Absolutely, as long as you have completed Primal Childhood Deconditioning group or private Primal sessions.

  • We will serve three nourishing organic vegetarian meals per day, along with healthy snacks. If you have specific dietary needs or allergies, please let us know in advance. You can indicate this in the registration form, or contact us directly by email: retreats@primalhealing.eu

    • Comfortable clothing (layers) that alows you move freely in the group sessions, sit on the ground, dance etc, including enough pairs of clothes to change for daily active meditations.

    • Warm socks / slippers / indoor shoes (no shoes are allowed in the group room)

    • Water bottle (no cups or glasses are allowed in the group room)

    • Journal and pen

    • Eye mask

    • Swimwear and towel for the sauna

    • Comfortable footwear for nature walks

    • Alarm clock

    • An open heart and curious mind ♡

    In addition to the list above, after your registration you will receive an email with a specified list of things to bring.